Advice’s For Youngster’s
I telling you in this write-up don’t do this things if you are young and having this time in a relationship.
first this, Do not spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive in order to just impress your love or crush rather than making yourself mentally attractive.
Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own.
That’s Attractive
Normalize saying “No” without needing to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that’s their problem.
The best weight you’ll ever lose is the weight of other people’s opinion of you.
Don’t subscribe to other people’s definition of “fun”.
Fun doesn’t have to mean drinking, partying, and socializing.
Fun can be a night alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, or doing your work.
Fun is yours; You define it.
Before you get married,
Discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debt, how to deal with family, what belief will be installed in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, financial expectations, family health history, bucket list, dreams and dream home planning. career and education, political view and whatever else come in mind.
Because Love is not enough.
The age of 15 to 30 is golden era of your life. you make friends, lose them too. you make mistake’s, correct them too. you fall, you fail, you learn, you realize, you hit reality, you fall in love, you get hurt too. you lose yourself and eventually become stronger.
Remember! these are the best years of your life. you should understand the difference between enjoying it and ruining it. heal before having children so your children don’t have to heal from having you as a parent.
your mental health is more important than other’s people’s opinion and money, career that event you said you’d attend, your partner’s mood and your family’s wishes, combined.
lesson if you want to be mentally strong.
- Sometimes your old life has to fall apart before your new life can fall together. So, don’t hesitate to leave the past in the past.
2. At any minute, there is someone who can come along and change your life. that parson is you. But some people’s are very expensive who helped you without think anything don’t lose her.
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author — Prabal Jaat
